How does one succeed in life?
14.06.2025 08:01
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Hangs out with loser friends.
Making more friends is a goal.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
What would have happened if Shin was a good movie instead of a bad one?
Do not set goals—set systems.
That's it for today.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Is the Las Vegas Grand Prix considered one of the "premier events on the Formula 1 calendar?"
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
What’s the craziest thing you’ve heard pretending to be asleep?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
What are some signs that a therapist may have poor boundaries with their clients?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
What do men find attractive in an older woman?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Does not procrastinate.
Ask yourself:
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Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
What is your daily motivation and does it work?
Procrastinates a lot.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
How can I get my ex-husband to love me again?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Why do people stay in cults after they have joined?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
What I need from you?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.